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Chats With The Universe

Chats With The Universe

Hello Mystery,

Clarity is something that I have been seeking in Life.  Clarity in my career desires, relationship pursuits, financial freedom, and friendships.  The kind of clarity that clears the fog when a decision is required.  When I arrive at a crossroads, the clarity to know the way to go without question.  You know that kind of clarity?

Do you have that kind of clarity in your Life?

This is inspired by Gabrielle Bernstein’s book “The Universe Has Your Back” that I am reading this month.  Each chapter of her book includes an exercise, mantra, meditation, or prayer to help you trust that you are being cared for and watched over by the Universe.  “Universe” in this case being the same name as Spirit, God, Gaia, Karma, or anything bigger than you to turn your concerns, worries, and FEAR over to and release you to live as we each should live.  In faith that there is something bigger than yourself.

My biggest take away so far is to release and relinquish my fear.  Its fear that holds you back from trying, from stepping into the void and trusting yourself to land on your feet.  As a practice, this week I have started each day with 5-minutes of meditation, 20-40 minutes of journaling, and a walk in the quiet early morning silence under the stars.  My journaling practice has brought my mind clarity and my heart peace. Here is how I have decided to chat with the Universe.

I wrote a list of topics and have spent every morning putting pen to paper.

My topics include…

  • My Life Partner
  • Financial Freedom
  • Career
  • Friendships
  • Family Relationships
  • Physical Health

Each of these have provided more than enough inspiration for me to write non-stop for 30-40 minutes.  My writing is not specifics like height, weight, bank balance, or job title.  Each writing is how I FEEL in each scenario.  What does it feel like to me to have financial freedom.  How does my life feel in the day-to-day with my life partner.  What does it feel and look like for me to have the career of my dreams.  Describing each facet of my life, putting pen to paper, and addressing the Universe in the first sentence of each journal entry, feels so right.  It feels like the words are flying off the page as I write them and the Universe is going right to work on my desires.  Not going to work to make my wishes her command, but grateful that I have FINALLY defined what I want.  Can you imagine how difficult it is to help a friend that won’t tell you what they want?  You know you have the ability to help them improve their situation and yet they won’t tell you exactly how….

The Universe Wants To Know Your Hearts Desires.

Now, the really hard part is that once you tell the Universe what you want, need, desire, or require…. you MUST trust that it will come to you.  In fact, you must walk into that reality as though it were already true.  Its only when you walk in faith that what you have asked for, you will have and you deserve.  That is the hardest part but the only way that the Universe will begin working immediately to your benefit.  I mean… to go forward with doubt means that you second guess your worth in having that desired reality.  You know that you’re worth each beautiful descriptor you have shared, right?  I want you to know that you ARE INDEED WORTH IT.   Beautiful dreamer, your dreams are worth living.  All you have to do is paint the picture and know it to be true.

Here’s me sharing how beautiful my new world is about to become…..


Book Club – You Don’t Need A Card To Join!!

Book Club – You Don’t Need A Card To Join!!

“Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.” ― Mark Twain

The greatest memories from my childhood are made over a GIANT Sears Christmas catalog.  Every year the “Sears Christmas Wish Book” would be delivered to my grandparents mail box.  It weighed about 5 pounds, was loaded with all of the amazing sparkle and shine that a little girl could want, and my sister and I would scour it cover-to-cover.   The “rule” was that anything that we wanted was to be touched.  Imagine how exhausting it is to go through 500+ pages of wish list with 2 girls pointing and saying “I want that one…that one…that one.”   Instead we would sit silently and take turns touching the picture of the dress, shoes, doll, purse, or jewelry that we want.

Why is this such a great memory?

Because the hours that we would go over every page in detail was the opportunity to DAYDREAM. Isn’t that the true gift of every book?  The ability to take you somewhere else, experience another place or existence all within the realm of your minds eye.  That truly is the beauty of the written word and guided story.  THAT is why I lead Book Clubs.  We all read the same book and experience it differently then come together weekly to share our different views.

Every new book is an opportunity to discover a new world – a world of your own making – design – your own desire.

Do you have a favorite book or good recommendation?

Comment below or email me at rebecca@RebeccaAHavens.com

Look at my EVENTS page for the book of the month, the start date, and the info!